Is Fibromyalgia Real Or In Your Head? In this blog post we take a deep dive in to that question and find out how we can heal such chronic pain.

So there I was again crying on the toilet. This had become a familiar place for me over the years, as I struggled with the changing patterns of irritable bowel syndrome and chronic back pain. Whenever I thought I’d gotten a handle on it, something would set it off. To the point that I felt hopeless, lost and alone. Until finally I found the answers to fully heal my pain.

A social media image of nature and a positive affirmation, is doing it's best to help people attend to their inner critic. However, once you realise that your inner critic is most likely a younger wounded part of you, positive thinking can actually be detrimental. What you need is a supportive and collaborative relationship with it..

Once you understand TMS it becomes a choice, either continue to take a new pill for a ‘new pain’ or start to do the work of understanding what needs resolving and how you’re going to resolve it.

I call the constant pre-emption of pain ‘pre-emption’ loops, the mental merry go rounds of fear trying to predict the onset of pain. Breaking pre-emption loops is not a linear process, over time you realise that your pain is emotionally induced, and you cultivate tools to recognise and express those emotions.

Instead of trying to figure out why you have chronic pain, start with how you feel towards your chronic pain. When you acknowledge the way you feel towards your pain, cultivate practices to get comfortable feeling those emotions.

Ever been told that your emotions are creating chronic pain, but you’re not sure which emotions? Introducing Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS), an empowering process which identifies those emotions and what to do when they arise.

Emotional burying creates pain in the body, it’s not a theory anymore, it’s a fact. As I reflected on my internal dialogue, I started to see that I wasn’t very kind to myself. So I took steps to be kinder to myself by allowing what I call ‘dirty emotions’ to have a voice…

My diet and lifestyle used to help me with IBS, until it stopped working. I had to find a different approach, and fortunately I did.

The mind body connection is when our emotions create physical symptoms, acutely and chronically. Acutely, when we’re nervous our stomach rumbles and palms sweat. Chronically, repressing emotions can create constant pain. Learn how to overcome this.